There’s an old saying that goes, “Lucky in love, unlucky in money. Lucky in money, unlucky in love.”
Ay yi yi! Don’t believe that hooey for a second!
You can have both a deeply connected, loving relationship and continue to see the success you enjoy in your career. You don’t have to choose between the two – that’s a complete myth.
Why? Because it all comes down to your beliefs.
What you choose to believe about yourself and your life will always be reflected in your outer experience. This means that you may have to do some work around your belief systems (for instance, if you’re reading this and thinking, “I don’t buy it – life just happens – I don’t have anything to do with the things that happen to me” then you know there might be some self-reflection in the cards).
The truth is life happens THROUGH us not TO us.
So yes, there is work to be done, honeychild, but the rewards at the other end bring a new passionate magic to your life. Hallelujah!!!
Many career women forget to hold a vision for themselves detailing what their life would look like if it included a wonderful, expansive and sizzling partnership in addition to a successful work life.
Going from day to day with that vision can change everything: it is a blissful reminder to step into our feminine energy after a long day at the office. After all, two men in a heterosexual marriage won’t work! A lot of successful women try to be the alpha male in the partnership, and unconsciously push men away.
So, how can you continue to enjoy the success you have at work while at the same time experience a deeply passionate and fulfilling relationship with a significant other?
Ask yourself these five questions:
1. Do I have a vision for my success in love AND money?
2. Do I believe in my vision, truly feel that it is possible?
3. Can I feel the difference between my masculine and feminine energies?
4. Am I actively choosing to flip into my feminine when I’m interacting with my partner or potential partners?
5. Am I actively choosing self-love by caring for myself and honoring my needs?
Staying present and conscious in the moment – making choices that honor both your career AND love life is the magic bullet that will give you both:))